internetmonk.com: The Temptation to Quit

internetmonk.com: The Temptation to Quit

Resignation as revenge: "Quitting looks good at times. It promises a jolt of power, self-determination and the ability to demonstrate to others the depths of grievance or upset....Quitting suddenly in ministry is very painful to those left behind in shock. It sends messages that are lasting and serious. 'You don't love us.' 'You told us to not give up, and now you've given up.' 'You left us alone, and took the exit out of our lives.' 'Did God tell you to do this? Why?'"